According to psychologists, couples who argue really love each other more
It really sounds strange when you hear that people who argue a lot love each other more and for real. The question we ask ourselves is why? From a very young age we are taught that a real relationship is flawless and all goes smoothly, meaning there are no arguments at all. This is the reason why we grow up thinking that when we find that special someone everything will be perfect till the end of our days.
Due to this illusion, a lot of people end up being single for a long time. According to science, when two people who are in a relationship argue, they express their point of view and thus showing the right face to each other. So, when you learn to accept your partner for who he is, there will be nothing that will ruin your relationship.
You should learn to treat each argument as a discussion and nothing more, as a discussion that will open a new secret about your partner Sometimes fighting is considered to be healthy and bonding. However, be sure to never cross the line in your argument.
Sometimes , the things you say can have a great impact over your partner, not always a positive one. There is no way you can take your words back. Sad but true, very often a rough phrase, you haven’t even meant can lead to destruction.
All in all, you need to act like a grown up in any kind of argument. Don’t ever insult your partner because it will never prove your point and will never make your bond stronger. If you appreciate your partner, you shouldn’t be afraid to speak up your mind, but never in the insulting manner.
Keep it in mind that mutual respect is not less important!